Abstinence sexuelle

« INTRODUCTION In a society where the sex and love became objects of consumption, the periods of abstinence have bad press.

(That they are undergone or chosen moreover.). The celibacy often appears as a failure of the previous relation or our capacity to seduce. Because the love life is not linear, because the desire is not it either, because sometimes, the body leaves in abeyance or what the morale is not set fair, he can arrive that the sexuality finds itself in brackets. A- Definition The sexual abstinence consists in stopping any sexual intercourse during a more or less long period.

The sexual abstinence can be adopted for religious, social or political reasons.

She can be also recommended medically.

Indeed, the sexual abstinence allows to look after an infection, to limit the epidemic of sexually transmitted diseases and to regulate the births.

The sexual abstinence is a natural contraceptive which implies (involves) no grip (taking) of hormonal treatment. B-Abstinence and chastity: nuance According to the Web encyclopedia Wikipedia, the sexual abstinence (or continence) is the "non-use of genitals for a sexual activity".

The most usual meaning being within the framework of a relation with another individual, but also includes the masturbation.

We do not choose inevitably the abstinence.

The chastity, her, aims to be a life choice, by religious belief or desire of spiritual rise, for example. I- FORMS OF ABSTINENCE The degree of abstinence so goes of the simple abstinence of genital sexual intercourse without there is inevitably abstinence of the other sexual practices (it is the case of the contraceptive frame(executive) for example) in the total abstinence of intention of sexual order, including purely psychic (it is the case in certain religious frames(executives)).

We can distinguish also the abstinence associated with the Christian wish of chastity, or with its equivalent in many more religions, which is the fact of member of a religious order in the optics to transcend the associated drives. We can choose as well of the abstinence, in a definitive or temporary way, simply by the fact as we do not want or as we do not feel the need to have sexual relations, without justifying this choice by philosophic or religious convictions. According to a study of Dean M.

Busby and al., of the University Brigham Young in Utah, (a university of the Mormons) published in the Newspaper of Family Psychology, telling to have interviewed 2 035 couples married between 2006 and 2009, the "abstinent" couples would be more satisfied than the "non1 abstinent".

Their relations would be 22 % besides stability.

Their communication would be 22 % superior.

A couple having waited for the marriage would be 15 % of «quality reports (relationships) «in more II- RELIGIOUS FACTORS (MAILMEN) The great majority of the religions fix in their founding texts rules (rulers) to be observed regarding sexuality.

They indicate sometimes very precisely the type (chap) of authorized relations and those who are not him, the conditions which authorize them (the marriage) the number and the sex of the possible partners (by authorizing or not the polygyny, the polyandry or the homosexuality, for example) and sometimes ask for the total abstinence to certain members of the community.

So the Secretaries of certain worship (cults) have to pronounce a wish of chastity which forbids them any sexual activity (it is for example the case of the priests, the monks and the religious Catholics). III- THE BENEFACTIONS OF THE ABSTINENCE 1 - We rediscover its sexuality when we are a single woman, we can rediscover his sexuality solo and it does a world of good! There is nothing better to learn to know each other sexually. 2- We wait for a nice person It is necessary to admit that it is always better when we have feelings.

All the more reason to wait for somebody who really pleases us, all our sensations will be multiplied tenfold! 3 - We become more productive When we are abstinent, we become less and less obsessed by the thing and, consequently, we are much more productive. 4 - We shall really want the next time Due to eating some cake every day, it becomes disgusting (in this particular case, the cake, it is the sex).

It is similar for the somersaults.

The more we space out, the more the desire rises. 5 - We more go in for sport When we often make love, we fill up with endorphins, hormones of the wellbeing.

As a result: we do not feel any more the need to go in for sport because we are already filled at this level.

By being abstinent, we so much need to let off steam that we are grateful(inescapable) to go in for sport. 2 6 - We avoid the gynécos concerns Mycoses, cystitis and other gynécos problems … By practising the abstinence, we avoid each other this kind(genre) of small inconveniences and we feel reliving. 7- None risks.... »